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[hazy_reflection]

The scenario: An extremely spiritual--in the one god, god of the Israelites type of spirituality--woman has made a mistake and "sinned", having slept with her boyfriend, and is now pregnant.

She figures she has two options.

Option One: Get an abortion. This completely goes against everything she's been raised with. Pro-choice or pro-life, it doesn't matter. Blind faith tells her that it's wrong and that it's not really an option.

Option Two: Go through with the pregnancy and give the baby up for adoption. Either way, she'd lose the child because she knows she doesn't have the lifestyle that can afford a child, but she wants what's best for the child, which would be an adopted life.

She makes a choice, but it's neither of the options she's figured. So she prays. She asks God to take this baby from her, because she made a mistake and it's not her place to push this child into a life it doesn't deserve. It's not right to force the child into a life of hardships and difficulties, which is just what it might get if she puts it up for adoption. It might not even get adopted. It might grow older and be put into the child care system, thrown from foster care home to home. But if she aborted the baby, it wouldn't be her right to kill it. Murder it. So she asks God to take it from her, to save it from a life that it didn't deserve. Is she right? A child is a special gift. Children deserve the best from a parent.

Is it the Ultimate Sacrifice or the Ultimate Act of Selfishness?

Comments

Options?

[(Anonymous)]

The way I see it, if this young woman is truly following God's calling in her life, she would pray for His will and not her own. Pray for His direction and His solution and pray for the strength to accept whatever option He provides. Jeremiah 29:11 says, "'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord. 'They are for good and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.'" God has a plan for her life and for the life of her unborn child.

As an adoptive mom who somehow stumbled across your post, I would also add that there are millions of childless couples out there who would give anything for the chance to adopt a baby. And would give that child a wonderful, stable home and even support a relationshiop with that child's birthmother. I think there are a lot more than 3 options here.