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LR - KRGB ([personal profile] hazy_reflection) wrote2010-12-06 08:35 pm

=(

John said we don't feel as close as we used to. He used me working as an excuse for it...that because I'm working we obviously don't spend as much time together so we're not doing as much together anymore...

Should I be worried about this...? Either way, it made me feel like a horrible wife, even though I know he didn't mean it that way, nor did he want to make me feel that way. But I still feel horrible about it.

[identity profile] honest-illusion.livejournal.com 2010-12-07 10:45 am (UTC)(link)
Why not talk to him about it? :) That way, you'll have a better understanding of his side and you two could start working things out. Based on my experience, when I let disturbing remarks like that slide, the conflicts just got worse because I didn't air them out when I should have.

[identity profile] hazy-reflection.livejournal.com 2010-12-07 11:30 am (UTC)(link)
We talked. =) It was mostly my PMS talking at the time, and crying...and being ridiculously outrageous in my thought processes (see above) and of course the typical over reaction from a worrier like me. And he knows that and we cuddled and everything's better. I'm just a headcase. =P

[identity profile] honest-illusion.livejournal.com 2010-12-07 11:35 am (UTC)(link)
Haha, glad to know it's all sorted. ;)