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[hazy_reflection]

John said we don't feel as close as we used to. He used me working as an excuse for it...that because I'm working we obviously don't spend as much time together so we're not doing as much together anymore...

Should I be worried about this...? Either way, it made me feel like a horrible wife, even though I know he didn't mean it that way, nor did he want to make me feel that way. But I still feel horrible about it.

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[a-leprechaun.livejournal.com]

What's the context? Were you in the middle of a Serious Discussion, or was it more of an off-hand comment he made?

I wouldn't necessarily worry right off the bat. My John and I have times when we're really out of sync with our schedules, especially now since I'm working two jobs... and it might suck, and we might complain about it to each other, but it's not a question of blaming the other person. It just is what it is, and we do our best to find time to spend together.

[hazy-reflection.livejournal.com]

No context...just a completely out of the blue comment as he was drifting off to sleep. I dunno. I know it's nothing to worry about just because that's the way we are...but I'm a worrier by nature. *shrug*

Of course, a day later, his comment on it is that "it's summer!" We don't cuddle as much when it's warm because we're both larger people and it's just too hot and sticky and not in a good way. =P